Where does my data live — is it on a server?
Yes. Your account, streak, and circle sync securely through our servers, which is why the same screen shows up whether you open Breaking Chains on your phone or your laptop. That sync is the point — your progress and your circle follow you. The one thing we deliberately keep off our servers is your browsing history (next question).
Do you store the websites I visit?
Blocked DNS lookups are recorded as a category and a time, not the site name. Operational logs can also include a source IP address or resolver profile identifier. These records are not a complete browsing history, but they can contain sensitive activity. A blocked lookup can come from background traffic and does not prove that a person deliberately visited a site. See our privacy policy for the current limits.
What exactly do the people in my circle see?
Alerts can summarize a blocked-site category, override request, integrity event, reset or milestone. Account settings do not suppress every class of alert. These messages and circle posts have different visibility rules; review the privacy policy before adding an ally. The full breakdown is in the “What your circle sees” section above.
Can Breaking Chains itself see my browsing?
Filtering requests are processed by the service. Blocked domains and times can be recorded, and operational logs may include source IP or resolver identifiers. These are sensitive records, not a complete browsing history. Read the privacy policy for storage and sharing limits.
Who can turn off my protection?
Not you alone in a weak moment — that is the whole idea. Overrides notify your circle instantly, and an ally holds the unlock code. On phones, the filter is built so that disabling it alerts your circle in real time. Weakening the protection is never silent.
How many sites do you actually block?
More than 1,013,000+ pornographic and bypass domains right now, and the list grows continuously. New sites are pulled in automatically, and over time your own community can flag ones we have missed.
Does my circle have to be all men?
No. Your circle is whoever you trust to walk this road with you — a friend, a mentor, a sibling, a spouse. We call them allies. You choose who is in it and what they are told.
Is this shame-based?
No. It is identity-first and grace-first: accountability with people who love you, never surveillance and never shame. The goal is freedom, walked out with a circle beside you.